Alastair Duhs – Relationship Expert and Counsellor For over 30 years, I’ve helped more than 15,000 individuals and couples create calmer, more connected and more loving relationships. Many of the couples I work with come to me at breaking point. They may be stuck in cycles of anger and constant arguments. Some are reeling from the devastation of infidelity. Others are living with the wounds caused by emotional abuse, controlling behaviour or even physical violence. In every case, there’s one thing in common: a deep desire to reconnect and rebuild what has been lost. My approach is practical, compassionate, and focused on results. I help couples understand the underlying causes of conflict, communicate more effectively, rebuild trust and create a stronger emotional bond. While lasting change can take time, many couples notice real improvements in just a few sessions—less arguing, better communication and a growing sense of hope and connection. Credentials and Background Post-Graduate Diploma in Psychotherapy – Auckland Institute of Technology Master’s Degree in Quantum Physics – The University of Auckland Member – New Zealand Association of Counsellors (since 2000) Founder – Successful private counselling practice helping couples since 2000 Throughout my career, I’ve also worked with respected organisations including Respect Trust, Methodist Mission Northern, Richmond Fellowship and Home and Family Society. I’ve led close to two thousand group sessions for men who perpetrate domestic violence, making me one of New Zealand’s most experienced counsellors in this area. But no matter how complex your relationship challenges may feel, I can help. Whether you're battling ongoing conflict, struggling to forgive after betrayal, or simply feeling distant from your partner, I offer clear tools, expert guidance and non-judgmental support to help you restore connection and love. Ready to Rebuild Your Relationship? If you're ready to take the first step toward a calmer, happier, and more loving relationship, I invite you to book your first counselling session with me today. Let me help you create a calmer, happier and more loving relationship.