Personal Story: Managing my panic attacks
Personal story about a woman's mental health journey after her father passed away. #BeautifulMinds is a series of raw and honest stories from people sharing their lived experience with mental health in New Zealand. Published with permission.
I was 26 when my Dad died of suicide. He was the ‘strong’ one in our family, so who knows exactly how long he had been struggling for. I was so young when I had to deal with the funeral, emotions, lawyers and mortgages. After the shock had passed, I started to have regular panic attacks, I couldn’t sleep, I fought with my partner, drank too much and my work suffered.
I finally saw a psychiatrist after my anxiety manifested itself as severe hypochondria. She asked me to do 3 things. Cut down on alcohol, increase my exercise and spend time outside. Sobriety helped me so much. However, my anxiety was stronger and I finally decided I was ready for medication. I never want to go back to the way I was. I completely understand why people can’t function and end up taking their own lives. I just want to live; I did everything I could to stay alive.
I still fight it, almost every day. It’s like a small voice. Some days I’m stronger, other days she takes over. Wellness is possible but it takes a lot of work. There’s no magic pill but you can find a formula, a process and new skills to live a better life. It’s possible, I’m a living example of that.
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