Life threw me some tough curves, leaving me discouraged and ready to quit. But somehow, I always managed to stay in the game. With no easy solutions readily available, I searched tirelessly for answers that would make a difference. But if I am honest, I was always looking for the magic bullet, the instant answer that so many people want. My educational system and upbringing left me believing in an all-too-familiar plan of working hard in school, landing a great job, and aiming for success. But